Post's guiding belief was that good manners began with consideration for the feelings of others and included good form in speech, knowledge of proper social graces, and charm. She believed that the best way to do almost anything was the way that pleased the greatest number of people and offended the fewest. Before her book had been out a month, readers bombarded her with questions the book had not addressed, and these formed the basis of later versions of the book.
Etiquette was originally written for the newly rich who wanted to live, entertain, and speak like the wealthy. The focus of later versions of the book, however, was the character of "Mrs. Three-In-One," a wonder woman who acted as cook, waitress, and charming hostess at small dinner parties. Post also started a column of questions and answers that appeared in newspapers and received as many as twenty-six thousand letters a year at her New York office and more at newspapers in other cities.
During the s she appeared three times a week on her own radio program, which continued for eight years. Although Post's advice on social behavior changed over the years, even in later versions of the book she refused to give up the idea of the chaperone. She also maintained an earlier belief that it was improper for a woman to visit a man alone in his apartment or to go on overnight automobile trips.
Her "Blue Book," which was the American standard of etiquette for years, was reported to be second only to the Bible as the book most often stolen from libraries. Emily Post maintained her social position, traveled in Europe, and always spent the summer months away from New York City at a home in Tuxedo Park, New York designed and built by her father , and later in life at Edgartown, Martha's Vineyard, Massachusetts. She wrote other books besides her writings on etiquette, including: The Emily Post Cook Book ; The Personality of a House , partly based on her experiences rebuilding and remodeling her summer home at Martha's Vineyard; and Children Are People , much of which came from hours time she spent with her grandson.
In she formed the Emily Post Institute, headed by her son Edwin, to study problems the issues of gracious living. Emily Post remained active throughout her life, awakening early, but remaining in bed to devote time to letters and her daily column. She always made her first appearance of the day at lunch, which was served promptly at one o'clock.
Going fast! A collection of cards, gift tags, and place cards inspired by Emily's garden. We know you'll love them as much as we do. Lizzie Post writes for The Atlantic - Our pre-pandemic social manners have been upended. But although etiquette is always in flux, its principles should be timeless. The Emily Post Garden Collection by Isa Salazar has botanical water colors inspired by Emily's Garden and consists of gift tags and place cards as well.
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We love etiquette and write about everything from the traditions of formal address to the mask wearing manners of today. You may find yourself asking, "So who was Emily Post? People are actually etiquette experts?!! That's a thing?! Emily Post was alive from — Her life started in the age of the horse and buggy, watched the first roadways across the continental United States get built, saw America through both the start and end of the prohibition of alcohol, the great depression, and ended with peace, love and microwave ovens.
Known as a prominent New York society woman in the early s, Emily, the daughter of famed architect Bruce Price, became famous for her practical and humorous advice on etiquette. A modern woman, Emily divorced her husband at young age and used her writing skills to support herself as a single mother of two.
She supported many causes, but she was particularly outspoken on the end of alcohol prohibition. While Emily never let alcohol cross her lips she believed absolutely that the government must not interfere with what she considered citizens' rights. Though much of Emily's early work was fictional she was given the opportunity to write about manners and etiquette and the more she dove into the topic the more she found she had to say.
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