Why success eludes you

Further, if at first you do not succeed one way, do not pity yourself and get frustrated. It will only lead to your down fall and lower your self-esteem. It is also not wise to blame your fate or other people. No doubt, you have worked hard to realize your goal, but blaming the external forces will not be beneficial in any way. Put responsibilities on your own shoulders, so that you would be open to find another way to make your dream come true. When success keeps on eluding yourself, first you need to make sure that your goal is realistic to follow else you are bound to struggle throughout the life.

Amazing insight, Pat! Thanks a bunch, for sharing this invaluable wisdom, and may the Almighty God bless you for not being selfish with your wise input! Another way of gleaning wisdom is simply by making oneself avaialable to the service of others. Service is key to success! Beginning with your parents, neighbours, close friends, family etc. Also learn to love those out there, who are engaged in the field you are interested in—have mentors; work on being humble and self-confident, while showing empathy toward others.

Stephen- thanks for the excellent suggestion about serving others as one of the keys to success. No one gets to where they want to go just by being self-serving.

Zig Zigler always reminded us: You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want. Follow me on Twitter Like me on Facebook. Courtesy: Jen Cohen. Courtesy: Laura Cooper.

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They are willing to do what others will not. They exercise their self-discipline, their will power, to constantly do the work that others find unpleasant. They also decide to be happy, and they will that into being, too. This is all mindset. Their strategies are better. People who are successful have better strategies. To produce better strategies, they spend more time studying.

They read. People who are strategic digest information so they can see connections others miss. They spend time doing the difficult work of thinking. Their tactics are better.